How To Know If You Have Stuck Energy

Do you ever feel like you’re doing all the right things, but something still isn’t flowing?
 
Work might feel heavy or uninspiring. Your relationship with your child might be strained, leaving you feeling guilty or defeated. You might be stuck in a cycle with food or struggling to stay consistent with your health goals. Whatever the surface problem is – it’s not a sign that something is wrong with you. It’s a sign that your energy is stuck.
 
So many of the challenges we face in daily life are energetic blocks. It’s a different way of looking at things – but read on to understand more about this approach. Energetic blocks aren’t your fault, and they’re not permanent. They’re simply frozen patterns in your system – emotional, mental, and physical responses that have become stuck over time. And they can be released.
 
That’s where energy healing comes in.
 
An energy healing is a chance to clear the inner clutter that’s clouding your experience. It’s about gently releasing what’s been stuck, so your natural vitality, joy, good health and clarity can flourish again.
 
Let me give you an example:

A client came to me feeling completely drained at work. Her boss seemed unfair and dismissive, and every day was filled with resentment. She hated going in. During our EFT session, I gently asked her to notice what the feelings reminded her of – and suddenly, an old school memory surfaced. A teacher who had shouted and belittled her in front of the class. The same tight-chested feeling. The same stuck energy.

We tapped through that memory with compassion, allowing her to release the emotional charge her body had been carrying for years. By the end of the session, she felt lighter – and surprisingly, clearer. A few weeks later, she shared that she felt differently about work and was able to have calm conversations. She saw her boss now for what he was: a moody, older man with his own issues. It wasn’t about her anymore.

She still had the freedom to look for another job if she chose – but now, she was making that decision from a place of empowerment, not pain.

 When we look at challenges as signs of energetic congestion, we can stop blaming ourselves. There’s something stuck in our subconscious, it’s not that you are a bad person, so let’s release the shame and guilt and get curious. Instead of pushing forcefully to change a pattern, we pause and listen and find what is underneath. That’s where real change begins.
 
Energy blocks don’t just affect your mood or motivation – they physically affect your body too.
I don’t give medical advice, but I can support clients who are dealing with stress-related health issues. Our bodies are incredibly intelligent. Sometimes, symptoms in the body are signals from deeper emotional or energetic patterns. Through tapping and intuitive work, we can often uncover subconscious roots of those symptoms – insights that help your healing journey unfold more smoothly.

A client came to me for healing for a sudden, bad eczema flare-up. In our session, we explored what was going on beneath the surface. Skin issues are often deeply linked to stress, and sure enough, as we tapped, an old memory emerged – tension in the home from over 15 years ago, connected to one of her children. She had been carrying that stress in her body all this time without realising it, and a sudden similar event triggered an eczema flare up.

As we processed the memory and cleared the emotional charge, she felt a very definite shift. Within days, the eczema flare began to settle, but she also noticed another positive side effect. and she also noticed a surprising sense of calm. The anxiety she had grown used to living with had quieted.

Sometimes the body holds on until it’s safe to let go. In this case, one session of gentle EFT helped her do just that.

 
It’s important to know: while one session can absolutely help you feel a shift, true transformation often unfolds over time. Think of it like taking antibiotics – you wouldn’t take just one pill and expect it to clear an infection. Energy healing is similar. A course of sessions gives your system the space and time it needs to gently, sustainably unwind the root of the block.
 
With each session, you go deeper. Layers lift. Patterns release. And amazing things begin to shift – not just in the original area you came to work on, but often across all aspects of your life.
 
This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about freeing yourself.
 
So I invite you to pause and ask: Where in my life does the energy feel stuck?
That’s your body and system calling for attention, for care – for an energetic reset.
 
If you’re ready to feel lighter, clearer, and more connected to yourself and the people around you, I’d love to hold space for you.
 
Contact me to book your energetic reset session now.
Let’s shift the energy – together.

Avigail Benezra

Hi, I’m Avigail – an EFT practitioner, artist, wife, and mom to two little boys.